Learn From People Who Lived it
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide. This podcast writes the book! Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.
Episodes

Monday Nov 03, 2025
Childhood Trauma, Anger and Forgiveness, Quick Tips
Monday Nov 03, 2025
Monday Nov 03, 2025
The Complexity of Anger and Forgiveness
In this week's quick tips, I want to isolate a part of our conversation around anger.
Here are 3 key takeaways from our powerful conversation with Patricia:
- Healing is possible, regardless of circumstances: Patricia's story proves that even in the darkest moments, there's always hope for recovery and growth.
- The importance of self-trust: Learning to listen to your inner wisdom can be a crucial step in breaking cycles of trauma and abuse.
- Unlearning is as important as learning: Sometimes, the key to personal growth lies in letting go of old patterns and beliefs.
This episode is a must-listen for those seeking inspiration, healing, or a deeper understanding of trauma recovery.
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Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
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Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter:
Divorce isn’t just a life transition - it’s a full-blown identity shift. One day, you’re a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You’re staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?’
I know it’s hard. That’s why we’ve created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence
(and maybe even a little hope)! This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today.
Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching
https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7
Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course
https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8

Monday Oct 27, 2025
Reclaiming Life After Abuse with Patricia Noelle
Monday Oct 27, 2025
Monday Oct 27, 2025
Patricia Journey of Healing and Hope
In this powerful episode, Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Patricia Noelle, a survivor of childhood abuse and forced adoption who transformed her pain into purpose.
You'll hear:
• How Patricia overcame a harrowing past of abuse within the Mormon community
• The unexpected role of psychedelics in unlocking repressed memories and facilitating healing
• Strategies for navigating complex emotions like anger and forgiveness after severe trauma
"I wholeheartedly believe that psychedelics saved my life," Patricia reveals, detailing how these experiences helped her confront buried traumas. But she's quick to add, "That's not to tout that psychedelics are for everyone."
Dr. Dave offers professional insights throughout, particularly on managing anger and the neuroscience of trauma.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with past traumas or seeking inspiration in their own healing journey. Patricia's story reminds us that no matter the circumstance, healing is possible.
Follow the podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC
A note from our partner, Better Than Bitter:
Divorce isn’t just a life transition - it’s a full-blown identity shift. One day, you’re a partner, a parent, and a planner for the future. The next? You’re staring at paperwork, lawyer fees, and the overwhelming question: ‘What now?’
I know it’s hard. That’s why we’ve created these courses - to give you courage, clarity, communication tools, and the support you need to move forward with confidence
(and maybe even a little hope)! This program will pay for itself by helping you save thousands in legal fees and emotional stress! Hit these links to sign up today.
Premium 5-Step Game Plan Course w/ Chat Coaching
https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=7
Standard Course 5-Step Game Plan Course
https://tanialeichliter.ontralink.com/t?orid=1049&opid=8

Monday Oct 20, 2025
Finding Purpose After Panic, Quick Tips
Monday Oct 20, 2025
Monday Oct 20, 2025
In this episode of "Learn from People who Lived It," Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Debbie Zita, an entrepreneur and coach from Melbourne, Australia.
Debbie Zita's journey from a troubled past to a six-figure coaching practice is both inspiring and instructive. She offers a unique perspective on integrating spiritual practices with business success, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and ecological checks when pursuing personal growth.
"If I can do this and learn how to receive money, and money is a great thing to practice receiving. Sorry, spiritual folk, I love you, but we do actually need money while we're on this planet." - Debbie Zita
Follow the podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC

Monday Oct 13, 2025
Healing Through Entrepreneurship with Debbie Zita
Monday Oct 13, 2025
Monday Oct 13, 2025
In this episode of "Learn from People who Lived It," Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Debbie Zita, an entrepreneur and coach from Melbourne, Australia.
Debbie shares her powerful story of overcoming childhood trauma, adult abuse, and personal loss to become a successful business owner and spiritual guide.
You'll hear:
• How Debbie's challenging childhood shaped her resilience and drive
• The transformative "Six Selves" framework for personal growth and self-inquiry
• Practical advice on balancing spirituality with entrepreneurial hustle
"If I can do this and learn how to receive money, and money is a great thing to practice receiving. Sorry, spiritual folk, I love you, but we do actually need money while we're on this planet." - Debbie Zita
This episode also features a surprise appearance by author Cortney McDermott, adding depth to the conversation about resilience and personal transformation. Whether you're an entrepreneur seeking balance, a spiritual seeker looking for practical guidance, or someone on a healing journey, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice.
Follow the podcast:
Listen on Apple Podcasts (link: https://apple.co/3s1YH7h)
Listen on iHeart (link: https://ihr.fm/3MEY7FM)
Listen on Spotify (Link: https://spoti.fi/3yMmQCE)
Connect with Mathew Blades:
Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/
Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/
Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Additional Credits:
LFPWLI is managed by IMS LLC







