Learn From People Who Lived it
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide. This podcast writes the book! Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.
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Monday Oct 24, 2022
Monday Oct 24, 2022
"Elsa has been to hell and back." That was the opening line in an email her mom sent to our team. The email continues, "She has battled coming out, depression, anxiety and has used her tiktok account (@ElsaRobyn) to reduce stigma."
Every now and again you meet a younger person with an old soul. Wise beyond their years, Elsa is that person.
TW: Abuse, Body Dysmorphia, Addiction, mention of suicide
In this episode, Mathew talks with Miss Teen Phoenix, Elsa, and her mother Jill about how they both learned that “it’s ok to not be ok”. By leaning into honesty and open communication with her mom and her peers, Elsa has begun to heal from abuse by an alcoholic father, debilitating depression and body dysmorphia, and the fear of coming out as a lesbian to her religious family and friends.
We also hear how Jill feels about her daughter dealing with these issues and the gracious way she approaches parenting to facilitate healing for her family.
“Be who you are. Feel what you're feeling.”
In this episode, you'll hear:
How sharing her full truth on social media made Elsa see she isn’t alone
Tools Elsa had developed to overcome the fear of stigma
The ways Jill approaches her relationship with her daughter to help her heal
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Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Monday Oct 17, 2022
Suicidal ideation, sexual assault, domestic violence
In this episode, Mathew sit’s down with Ron Blake as he shares his story of overcoming suicidal ideation after he survived domestic abuse, a violent sexual assault, and ongoing harassment. After being reminded he still had laughter and hope inside of him while watching “The Late Show With Stephen Colbert”, Ron decided then and there to start taking small steps that eventually set him on the path of healing by sharing his story and hearing thousands back in return.
“If you take a step and it's not what you need, then find something else. Keep going”
In this episode, you'll hear:
The power of a moment of hope, having a purpose, and starting with small steps
Encouragement in finding tools to heal from YOUR trauma in YOUR way
The story of how Ron got to do a TEDx talk on his “social engagement therapy”
Resources:
National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) Statistics
Ron Blake | TEDxGrandCanyonUniversity
RAINN.org
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Connect with the Guest:
http://blakelateshow.nfshost.com/
https://www.instagram.com/blakelateshow/
Connect with Mathew Blades:
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Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Monday Oct 10, 2022
Monday Oct 10, 2022
In this episode, Mathew sit’s down with Len DeCarmine to talk about awareness, the challenges of being a modern man, and how to look inward to make the small changes that will improve your life. Len sees men in today's world suffering in silence and is passionate about creating spaces for them to create community, learn balance from each other, and be empowered in their relationships.
In this episode, you'll hear:
The tools that can help you build awareness
How connection and communication make us better
Steps you can take after you discover your blind spots
Resources:
Len’s Book: 1% More
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Connect with the Guest:
www.lendecarmine.com/
www.facebook.com/lendecarmine
twitter.com/YourCoachLen
extraordinarybeingmovement.business.site/
Connect with Mathew Blades:
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Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
Monday Oct 03, 2022
Monday Oct 03, 2022
LFWPLI: Marianne Gouveia, life after loss by suicide and finding healing at EricsHouse
TW: Talk of suicide and addiction
In this episode, Mathew and Dr. Dave talk with Marianne about the reality of suicide, the effects it has on people left behind, and how EricsHouse is helping people find healing.
Marianne’s youngest son, Eric, fell victim to suicide after an injury that lead him to develop an opioid addiction. She quickly realized there were very few resources to really help her deal with the pain, guilt, and despair she found herself left with. Eventually, she learned to approach her new reality slowly, found healing in community and conversation, and decided she would give life a new meaning. That journey lead her to create EricsHouse where people affected by the suicide of a loved one can find peer support, group support, and resources for holistic healing.
“One day you will hear their name and it will make you smile versus cry”
In this episode, you'll hear:
What led Marianne to create EricsHouse
“The Rule of Thirds” and other tools to help you heal
When you can lean on peer support and when you need to get professional help
Resources:
David Leicken, MD - http://ironwoodbehavioralhealth.com/index.html
https://www.ericshouse.org/outreach-prevention/
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Connect with the Guest:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-gouveia-6b32889
https://www.ericshouse.org/governing-board/
Connect with Mathew Blades:
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Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
* This podcast is not meant to serve as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, and is not a substitute for therapy.