Learn From People Who Lived it
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide. This podcast writes the book! Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide. This podcast writes the book! Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.
Episodes

Monday Jul 21, 2025
The Habit That's Sabotaging Your Self-Growth with Shaman Isis
Monday Jul 21, 2025
Monday Jul 21, 2025
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Unveiling the Power of Consciousness: A Journey with Shaman Isis
In this captivating episode, Mathew Blades sits down with Cynthia Elliott, known as Shaman Isis, to explore the transformative power of raising human consciousness. From a tumultuous childhood in a Catholic orphanage to becoming a beacon of spiritual growth, Cynthia's story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and profound transformation.
You'll hear:
• How Cynthia's challenging past became the catalyst for her spiritual awakening
• The intricate connection between mental health and consciousness
• Practical insights on shadow work and personal growth
• The ripple effect of raising individual consciousness on collective human happiness
Cynthia introduces her "reality wheel" theory, explaining how our thought habits shape our emotional states and lived experiences. She emphasizes the importance of awareness and energy management in improving mental well-being, offering listeners a fresh perspective on personal development.
"Our thought habits are gifted to us by our childhood experiences. And they're really all we know, so we don't actually look at them as though these thought habits are bad, and these thought habits are good." - Cynthia Elliott
The conversation delves into shadow work, with Cynthia sharing personal examples of confronting triggers and past traumas. She illustrates how these experiences can shape current reactions and behaviors, providing valuable insights for listeners on their own growth journeys.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the power of consciousness in personal transformation and collective growth. Cynthia's story serves as an inspiring testament to the potential for change that lies within each of us, no matter our past experiences.
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Monday Jul 14, 2025
Monday Jul 14, 2025
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Last week we dropped an episode talking about porn addiction. A subject we don't always talk about here on LFPWLI. If you only had five minutes with our podcast - what would I want you to know? This quick-hits podcast answers that question.
Coach Frank had this to say:
“You might be a porn addict if you lean on it as your go-to method for stress relief or emotional escape. If every time you feel stressed, anxious, or rejected—perhaps after a long day or a lonely night—you turn to porn for comfort, then it has become your crutch. It’s not merely about sexual desire; it’s an emotional safety net. Every time you promise yourself it’s the last time, but then find yourself back on that screen, it’s a clear signal. Look in the mirror. If the man you see isn’t someone you’re proud of because of this habit, it’s time to confront the issue head-on.”
Thank you for being here and if you know someone who needs to hear this, please send it there way.
Much love
Mathew
MathewBlades.com

Monday Jul 07, 2025
Breaking Free from Porn's Grip with Coach Frank
Monday Jul 07, 2025
Monday Jul 07, 2025
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Let go: Overcoming Porn Addiction with Coach Frank
In this episode, you'll hear:
- Early exposure to pornography and its long-term effects
- The role of identity transformation in recovery
- Strategies for overcoming porn addiction
- Advice for partners of those struggling with addiction
Join Mathew Blades as he sits down with Coach Frank and Dr. Frank Bevacqua to explore the complex world of porn addiction. Coach Frank shares his personal journey through a 20-year addiction, highlighting how early exposure shaped his understanding of relationships. The discussion reveals how porn addiction often masks deeper emotional issues, serving as a coping mechanism rather than a mere sexual outlet.
Coach Frank emphasizes the necessity of identity transformation in recovery, advocating for a fundamental shift in self-perception. Physical fitness emerges as a powerful tool in this process, aiding in building confidence and altering self-image. The conversation also offers practical advice for partners, stressing the importance of avoiding guilt and shame while engaging in mutual healing.
Notable quotes include Coach Frank's insight: "I think sitting at the foundation and root of all success in recovery or the journey to freedom sits in identity change or identity transformation." Dr. Bavacqua adds, "Unfortunately, now there is the shared responsibility of how do I heal the parts of me that were hurt by this?"
Explore the journey to freedom from porn addiction and discover the tools needed for a transformative recovery.
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Monday Jun 30, 2025
What if Anxiety Actually Makes You Stronger - Quick Tips
Monday Jun 30, 2025
Monday Jun 30, 2025
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If you could only listen to five minutes of my podcast? What would I want you to know? That is why we're here today. I will be dropping more of these short versions in the spirit of those two questions. Last week, we welcomed Dr. Friedemann Schaub, author of "The Fear and Anxiety Solution" and "The Empowerment Solution."
Dr. Schaub shares his journey of growing up with anxious parents who survived World War II, revealing how their fears shaped his own anxiety and obsessive-compulsive behaviors. Dr. Schaub offers strategies for working with the subconscious, and in today's clip, he offers the strategy that changed his life.
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