Learn From People Who Lived it
Navigating painful life circumstances would be easier if they came with a how-to guide. This podcast writes the book! Our show is all about transformation. Mathew Blades, a seasoned radio and television personality, uses his exceptional interview skills to guide individuals in sharing their challenging stories. With the support of our in-house psychologist and psychiatrist, we explore the patterns and strategies that enabled these individuals to transform their lives from a difficult phase to a thriving one.
Episodes

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Unpacking my faith journey
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The Evolution of Faith: Mathew Blades on Rediscovering Joy
In this episode, Mathew Blades shares his deeply personal journey with faith, from his church-filled childhood to a long period of disconnection, and ultimately, to a renewed sense of spirituality.
After witnessing inconsistencies in those around him, Mathew Blades drifted from organized religion, exploring Buddhism and other philosophies in search of meaning.
The loss of his parents and struggles with mental health sparked a gradual reconnection—first through conversations with his mom, then through the powerful draw of worship music.
Attending a new church reignited his sense of joy and belonging, prompting new reflections on what it means to be “in the right car” in life.
With candor and openness, Mathew Blades reminds listeners that faith is a lifelong, evolving process—and that wherever you are on your journey, you are not alone.

Monday Dec 22, 2025
The Narrow Gate That Changed Everything, Mathew Blades
Monday Dec 22, 2025
Monday Dec 22, 2025
Can you handle the truth?
Using biblical references and personal insights, Mathew introduces the concept of the "narrow gate" as a metaphor for the challenging but rewarding path to personal growth and authenticity. He encourages listeners to "air check" their lives, a technique borrowed from his radio career, to evaluate what's working, what needs improvement, and what should be eliminated.
You'll hear:
• How to create a life that feels authentically yours, despite personal limitations
• The impact of childhood experiences on adult behaviors and decision-making
• What it means to be a "transitional character" in your family or community
"I am not the smartest person in the room. I barely passed any test I ever took. I don't have any letters after my name. But I will say, through a lot of hard work and determination, I've created a life for myself that feels authentically mine." - Mathew Blades
To bring in Mathew to speak at your church, visit:
https://mathewblades.com/churches/

Monday Dec 15, 2025
How forgiveness will make you feel with Chelli Look, Quick Tips
Monday Dec 15, 2025
Monday Dec 15, 2025
The Power of Forgiveness - Watch her new Documentary, Dawn Dusk
One of the most striking aspects of Chelli Look's story is her journey to forgiveness. She faced the unthinkable task of forgiving her brother-in-law for taking her sister's life.
Chelli's experience teaches us that forgiveness isn't about excusing the act or forgetting what happened. Instead, it's about freeing yourself from the burden of anger and resentment. As she put it:
"The act of forgiveness was a liberating work for me to no longer let that act have such a grip on my life, and especially not on my mind."
This shift in perspective allowed Chelli to sleep better, think clearer, and move forward with her life. It's a powerful reminder that forgiveness can be a gift we give ourselves.
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Monday Dec 08, 2025
A Path to Forgiveness with Dawn Dusk star, Chelli Look
Monday Dec 08, 2025
Monday Dec 08, 2025
Grief, Art, and Forgiveness: Chelli's Journey of Healing
In this powerful episode, Mathew Blades and Dr. Dave sit down with Chelli Look, a leather artist and entrepreneur (CHC) from Chicago, to explore her transformative journey through grief, forgiveness, and healing. She shares her heart-wrenching experiences of losing both her sister to domestic violence and her best friend in a car accident, and how she channeled her pain into creating stunning leather goods.
You'll hear:
• How her new documentary "Dusk Dawn" captures her path from devastation to inspiration
• The unexpected process of forgiving her sister's killer and its liberating effects
• Why art became a crucial tool in her healing journey
Chelli Look's story is a testament to the human spirit's resilience. From struggling with sleepless nights and violent thoughts to finding peace through forgiveness and creativity, her journey offers hope and guidance for anyone grappling with loss.
"It was initially not even on the table. It wasn't a thought in my mind at all whatsoever. She was killed in 2007 and it was again such a blindsided loss..." - Chelli Look
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